Conflict As Contest
"Be kind, everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle" - John Watson
I avoided conflict. But that didn't seem to work. I had tried ignoring painful exchanges, placating or intimidating others into silence to make conflict go away. Not one of these approaches was successful.
Conflict is not just angry people yelling at or hurting one another
Win-win solutions can never be envisioned alone at the outset. A true win-win solution is developed when we search for an answer that gathers and incorporates everyone's needs and beliefs.
"The most intense conflict if overcome, leave behind a sense of security and calm that is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts and their conflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results" - C.G. Jung
Discovering your elemental Nature
Elemental Conflict Styles
Water
Water is realm of emotions.
Water people dive into its depths. Empathic & gentle. Water has the gift of changing form when pressed by fire (become steam), air (it evaporates or become ice) or earth (it easily shifts and flows around the obstacle)
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